Pictured above: Amanda Johnson
A female entrepreneur has launched the very first divorce
coaching business to be based in Horsley Woodhouse, Derbyshire.
The brainchild of 46 year-old Amanda Johnson, The Derbyshire
Divorce Coach will officially open its doors on Friday in a bid to
support those suffering with domestic violence relationships,
separation and divorce.
Amanda, who has a firm grounding in both counselling and life
skills, said: "The services I offer are very much tailored to the
needs of the client. Due to the legal, counselling and life
coaching skills I have and the fact that I have seen separation
from practically all angles, I am best placed to offer the kind of
advice that people need at the time of a relationship
breakdown.
"In essence, The Derbyshire Divorce Coach aims to act as a
stepping stone between the solicitor and a counsellor and I am keen
to show that when a relationship is breaking down, sometimes it is
better to consult a third party rather than aggravate the situation
by visiting a solicitor from the outset."
For those who are certain that divorce is the only path for
them, The Derbyshire Divorce Coach is a divorce advice service
which deals with the emotional side of the separation providing the
client with the practical skills to move forward as an
individual.
Amanda added: "Often clients have swapped the child institution
of family to the institution of marriage and don't know how to be a
strong independent person that doesn't necessarily need someone
else to make them complete. The process is all about learning
to love yourself and being completely happy in your own skin."
Based in her summerhouse surrounded by the beautiful Amber
Valley countryside, The Derbyshire Divorce Coach is very personal
to Amanda's life after she too suffered at the hands of divorce and
domestic violence.
Amanda added, "I got married at the age of 20, and five years
later after the birth of my daughter we got divorced. Some
years later whilst working at Wilson & Kirwan solicitors as a
secretary, I had a relationship with a man which led to a domestic
violence situation, in which he broke two of my fingers.
"When the matter was heard at the Magistrates Court, he was
found not guilty as it was supposedly my fault for the way I
twisted away from him! I was completely outraged!
Andrew Wilson, the solicitor I was working for at the time
encouraged me to research the matter and ask them to 'State a Case'
which I finally did. This was when I got my first taste of
doing legal research and I thoroughly enjoyed it.
"Although I obtained a response, they stuck by their decision
that this man was not guilty. Despite this, I did obtain
compensation from the Criminal Injuries Compensation Board.
The rest is history and I am now a Fellow of the Institute of
Paralegals and an Associate of the Institute of Legal
Executives."