Pictured above: Nottingham family lawyer Angela
Davis
Divorce lawyers are bracing themselves for the traditional busy
January, which this year is expected to mark an unprecedented,
significant rise in the number of divorcing couples, and start the
predicted trend for 2010 as a bumper year for divorces, according
to Nottingham family lawyer Angela Davis of Berryman.
"There are a variety of reasons why January is typically one of
our busiest periods," says Angela.
"Firstly, many people 'trapped' in unhappy marriages often
persevere and wait until after Christmas to break the news that
their marriage has reached a dead-end and is over. They often defer
the decision to separate until after Christmas so as not to spoil
the festive period for family members and particularly any
children. Others see the New Year as the time for a fresh start and
to make a break and plan to change their lives, along with other
New Year resolutions.
"Secondly, the stresses involved in the run up to Christmas
coupled with spending enforced time together with a partner, can
result in additional tensions, strains and arguments, ultimately
leading to the breakdown of a marriage. Furthermore, Christmas
parties are notorious for adultery!"
The UK's divorce rate has fallen in recent years but it is still
amongst the highest in the world with two out of every five
marriages failing, according to recent statistics. And figures from
the Office for National Statistics indicate marriages last an
average of just eleven years before break-up and divorce - coining
the new phrase for 2010 of 'the eleven-year itch'.
There are already signs that 2010 will be a bumper year for
divorce, as Angela explains. "With the recession and tumbling
property prices, many people held back from issuing divorce
proceedings, but for many they can no longer tolerate the strains
and pressures whilst the slight increase in property prices has
also been influential in them feeling they have reached the point
of no return."
Meanwhile, social networking sites such as Facebook are
increasingly being blamed for marital breakdowns. "In many of the
cases I have dealt with recently, Facebook has been mentioned,
particularly with husbands or wives changing their status on the
website, which is the first time their spouse learns of the
breakdown of their relationship. In other cases, husbands and wives
have used the social networking website to search for incriminating
photographs and evidence of their partners infidelities".
Many divorce lawyers will remember something similar some years
ago when Friends Reunited was at the height of its popularity with
people then rekindling old romances.
Berryman is a Midlands' law firm based in Nottingham, which
provides an extensive portfolio of legal services within four key
areas: Business Services, Property & Construction, Insurance
Services and Private Client. It employs over 130 people and has 17
partners.